Doing Things Mick's Way
Mick Cuffe, People from County Mayo in the West of Ireland
Movingly and beautifully, Sharon Cuffe, one of Mick’s daughters, sang "The Lord is My Shepherd" in a packed funeral Mass at the Church of the Holy Rosary in Castlebar.
In musical tributes at the mass, Tony Kenny, a friend of Mick’s sang "Blue Bayou" while another friend; Brendan Smith played "Rose of Mooncoin" on the steel guitar.
Many of the congregation joined in the singing of "Blowing in the Wind".
Chief mourners were Mick’s widow, Maura; sons; Padraig and Michael; daughters, Sharon and Lorna and parents Tom and Peggy and his brothers and sisters. The main celebrant of the Requiem Mass was Fr.Sean O’Toole, an uncle of Mick’s wife Maura assisted by number of priests including Fr. Tom O’Toole, another uncle of Maura; Fr. Jim Buggy and Fr. Nally, Belcarra.
One of Mick Cuffe’s uncles; Fr. Bernard Cuffe, led the prayers at the graveside.
As the remains were brought from the Church, a number which Mick had recorded on tape, a Frank Sinatra song, "I Did It My Way" was played over the speakers.
”My Way"
And now the end is near
And so I face the final curtain
My friend; I’ll say it clear
I’ll state my case of which I’m certain
I’ve lived a life that’s full
I’ve travelled each and every highway
But more, much more than this
I did it my way
Regrets, I’ve had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exemption
I planned each charted course
Each careful sep along the byway
But more, much more than this
I did it my way
Yes, there were times, I’m sure you knew
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all, then there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall
And did it my way
I’ve loved, I’ve laughed and cried,
I’ve had my fill, my share of losing
And now, as tears subside,
I find it all so amusing
To think I did it all that
And may I say-not in a shy way
No, oh no not me,
I did it my way
For what is a man, what has he got?
If not himself then he has naught
To say the things that he truly feels
And not the words of one who kneels
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way.
Conn Telegraph 18th September, 2002